Women...

[Unknown]

Do they ever know what they want? I've got a little story to tell. So I'm with this girl for nearly two years (nearly 3 if you count when we were just talkin') and things are going pretty good. After a while she gets real insecure because we are far apart now that I'm in college and away from her. She keeps telling me stuff like she doesn't want to lose me, how she feels like she's losing me, etc. basically she keeps feeling insecure like something would come between us. Something does...her. She just breaks up with me saying that things aren't the same way they used to be and how she just kept feeling us grow apart. I'm like ok then. She then tells me that she wants me to still stay her friend though because it would make her real sad if I was completely out of her life. So I try to be her friend because I want to be a good guy and it's not like she cheated on me or something. Only now that I ended up getting over her and getting to the point of where I really felt that I was her friend and not just trying to find a way to get back with her she seems like she can't accept it. She basically acts as if we are still together expecting me to do things that I did when I was with her. When I end up seeing her now, I feel like I'm chillin' with a friend but she always ends up getting sad asking me stuff like why don't you do this anymore and why don't you do that. I just don't get it. You wanted to break up with me but yet you're acting like we are still together? I've just come to the conclusion that she has no idea what the hell she wants and that I'm tired of it. Here I was thinking that I was the one who had a hard time dealing with it but it seems like she's the one who does as she is in denial. I definitely can't have her as a girl to just have sex and stuff like that with without the attachments because I was in love with her and it would get very complicated. Women... Is anyone else going through something like this or some other type of problem with relationships? I'm real bored today and don't really have much to do so I thought I'd try and get to learn more about the posters of WP.

[unpossibl1]

Sounds like a question for Dr. Chazz.

Myself, I can't say I have been through anything exactly like that, but I have found that when something like that occurs and they aren't getting the same amount of attention as they were before girls will start acting differently towards you. She basically doesn't want to be your girlfriend but still wants all the attention that a girlfriend gets.

From a guy's point of view, that's just not gonna happen. You aren't getting anything from her anymore beyond friendship, so investing time and attention as though she was a girlfriend doesn't make sense to us guys.

It's like getting a pay cut but still being expected to handle the same amount of responsibilities. You aren't going to continue to do the same amount of work when you aren't getting paid (laid :)) anymore. For some reason girls don't always get that.

[Sunshine]

I predict, that since you dont see eachother as often as you two would like...that shes in love with you, but at the same time, shes not getting enough of you know what.

Well, something somewhat like that happened to me. This one chica i was with, broke up with my after about 7 months. Two days later, she got drunk and made out with some other dude. So i was thinking, "What a hoe...". She then called me a few weeks after asking for another chance. I was like..."What the ****? How long is that hangover?". Well i didnt say that, but i was thinking it. What I did say was 'um...sure'. We ended up taking a break a 1-2 months after that because i had to go to California for 2-3 months. I came back, and she has a new boyfriend. Just the other day, on my birthday, March 19, she called back and wished my a happy birthday. Now im wondering if she will call on our supposed 2 year anniversary for the first time we met.

[AFalseSinn]

girls know exactly what they want...and i promise you she knows to.....
what she wants is for you to be completly and utterly confused...so much so that you will go and write a thread about it (o man....im to late).....and she will sit at home at night and write in her little book aobut how she has kept you on the line for yet another day

im prolly just being mean because some times people need it
specially the over used misunderstood "im a lonely little girly" rutine type ladies
since you cant smack um in the head to often before you go to jail...you just gotta cut um off, or find a way to get what you want from them
play there game or end there game i guess

i could be wrong man
but to me it just seems like a game
use it to your advantage if you have it in you
or get away while you can, before it messes ya up

(this is ment mainly as a tyranical funny joke..but there is truth behind it)

[Unknown]

girls know exactly what they want...and i promise you she knows to.....
what she wants is for you to be completly and utterly confused...so much so that you will go and write a thread about it (o man....im to late).....and she will sit at home at night and write in her little book aobut how she has kept you on the line for yet another day

im prolly just being mean because some times people need it
specially the over used misunderstood "im a lonely little girly" rutine type ladies
since you cant smack um in the head to often before you go to jail...you just gotta cut um off, or find a way to get what you want from them
play there game or end there game i guess

i could be wrong man
but to me it just seems like a game
use it to your advantage if you have it in you
or get away while you can, before it messes ya up

(this is ment mainly as a tyranical funny joke..but there is truth behind it)LOL, I get what you're trying to say. Sometimes I think she is playing games. I really think I'll have to make a decision about it. The funny thing though is that I told her about it and she told me that she has to do some thinking and would call me to talk about it. Either she just said that because as you said she might be playing games, maybe it's just like Trev said (I think that might just be the gist of it...I could stand to ask Dr. Chazz though), or she just might not know what the hell she wants. IDK which one it is but I do know that I am ready to go to drastic measures (cutting her off) in order for something to change and to force her to tell me what's going on with her. The only reason it really matters is because I'm tired of having to even have to stress about any female. It's time to just stay away from relationships for a while and just let girls know that we can have sex and all but I don't really want any attachment.

[Lover Nuts]

Some girls are ****ing weird.

I went out with this girl for 7 months, she cheated on me, but due to all the hassle from her friends, I took her back. I never had the same feelings for her though, she just bored the hell out of me when she would give a life story over the phone, MSN, etc. When I said something she didn't like, she would go cry about it to her friend and would make me look like the bad one. We then broke up a few months later because it just wasn't working out. The sad thing is that she would still talk about our past relationship on MSN and would start arguements about it. It was then on my birthday that she sent me text message being nice to me and everything, I just told her to **** off and I haven't talked to her since. Phweh...that was long. :p

I'm also having trouble with another girl. We're friends at the moment and she sometimes likes to get close to me, but she fancies my mate. One week she would be over me, the next she would be with my mate. She does this crap with my other mate too. She has asked me what would I say if she asked me out so I told her I don't know. Talk about confused...

Thanks, :coolspot:

[Peoples King]

**** Chazz, here comes Dr Chizz his evil twin.

Why that is a strange one and akin to some of the problems I have had in my brief life with women. It seems that they throw curve balls the whole time. One minute they are talking about how great it is being with you, how great you make them feel and how big your **** is and next thing you know you are being accused of not paying enough attention to her and being "distant." Its ****ing annoying as hell and I feel for you Unknown. The girl you are talking about seems very needy and a little irrational.

There isnt much you can do except ask yourself if you still love her the way you used to. Perhaps she made a knee jerk reaction and you were a good enough guy to stick by her as a friend. Right now she is more then likely going through one of those transitional stages of trying to discover who she really is and other ****e like that. If I were you I might try taking it slow with this girl and seeing if you too should still be togeather. Buddy sex doesnt work, it will just end up being either a relationship again or a destroyed friendship. She seems to still need you and I think now you have to ask yourself if you would still like to be with her.

Thats the way Chizz sees it but here is the more sinister side to Chizz's advice. If she is causing you so much grief invite her for a picnic. Go deep into the forest and pull an axe from the picnic basket. Cut off her head, rape a mongoose and then cut her into little tiny pieces and scatter them throughout the woods. The bears will catch the scent and devour her in no time........ Best kill the mongoose as well, don't want it making a statement to the police.

[Unknown]

Here's someone who knows exactly what I'm talkin about.

Right now she is more then likely going through one of those transitional stages of trying to discover who she really is and other ****e like that.Exactly what she said to me LMAO.


I'm also having trouble with another girl. We're friends at the moment and she sometimes likes to get close to me, but she fancies my mate. One week she would be over me, the next she would be with my mate. She does this crap with my other mate too. She has asked me what would I say if she asked me out so I told her I don't know. Talk about confused...I know a lot of girls like this. I would steer clear of these types of girls (relationship wise) because they're likely to try and do things in order to make you jealous and are likely to cheat just for the hell of it (some girls are just strange like that).

Hey...maybe I might have given Dr. Chazz an idea for his next column...:wink1:

[Peoples King]

NO! NO! NO! **** Dr Chazz.......... Go to Dr Chizz!

[Unknown]

LMAO...Dr. Chizz kinda knows what he's talking about but when he says stuff like this...
Thats the way Chizz sees it but here is the more sinister side to Chizz's advice. If she is causing you so much grief invite her for a picnic. Go deep into the forest and pull an axe from the picnic basket. Cut off her head, rape a mongoose and then cut her into little tiny pieces and scatter them throughout the woods. The bears will catch the scent and devour her in no time........ Best kill the mongoose as well, don't want it making a statement to the police. I kinda get afraid not only for actually considering the advice, but I get scared because I actually did it...:behead: *In a Gene Snitsky like voice* IT WASN'T MY FAULT!!!!!

[Peoples King]

Dead right Unknown, it wasnt your fault. As your Doctor I advise you to go on a healthy killing spree. Swing by Florida on the way and take care of Chazz. There is only room for one Dr in WP and Chizz is the man that will rule supreme.

[Unknown]

Good idea...BTW, when's your first column coming out? *Has an epiphany* I've already killed enough...eventually I'll end up in the slammer if I continue down this path of destruction. Then there will be no females to even post threads like this one...or even a WP to post anything on...you're fired Dr. Chizz. Dr. Chazz where are you when I need you to save me from this evil imposter...:huh: